that is my new mantra and it's actually starting to work.
the hubs is starting to come around and actually talk about what he's feeling rather than just say no.(let's hear it for the boy) in fact based on our most recent conversations, i'm pretty sure we'll be accepting placements again soon. the only thing i'm not looking forward to is discussing this with our home coordinator. she was kind of rude to us over the phone the last time we spoke and it left noth hubs and i with sour feelings towards her. ah well, guess when the time comes i'll just be calm.
any other advice?
How about there is no rush to the finish line and try to enjoy the journey and time you have before you have kids. I had my first at 24 and I have no regrets but we didn't take advantage of our pre kid days nearly enough!
ReplyDeleteSomehow these things work themselves out over time in a way that ultimately works. You learned a lot from your first placement and you will be just that much more ready however you build your family when the time comes.